A Delicate Desert Flower

A Delicate Desert Flower

Monday, December 27, 2010

Sri Lanka December 2010

I wrote every day while I was there so I could post when I got back :) I am home now, and have the beginnings of a marvelous cold.

December 19 2010


We left last evening from the Dubai airport. It was a short four hour flight to Sri Lanka. I did not sleep a wink on the flight, so I was exhausted when we landed. It was completely dark, after midnight. We wisked our way through immigration and customs. A nice young man named Aruna was waiting for us with a sign with my friend’s name on it. We got our first taste of the Sri Lankan roads when, while waiting for our van, we saw one crash into another while trying to pull up at the curb at the airport. These people are honestly crazier than Dubai drivers. They constantly change lanes without signaling and often go barreling into oncoming traffic to pass whatever slow truck, van, or moped is in front of them. We whizzed through the darkness. There were a surprising number of people on the roads; Aruna told us that it was because of the Christmas lights in the park. Yes, it’s actually Christmas here. There are lights and decorations everywhere, although it’s still a little strange to see palm trees decked out. We passed many shops and stores, mostly made out of concrete, thatch, sheet metal, old rusted fencing, and lone shop windows often with only a few items on display. We arrived at our hotel, the Silver Sands, in Negambo. The manager was kind enough to meet us and show us to our rooms. Now, whatever you’re thinking of, get it out of your head. Picture a bare bones room, old decaying and decrepit furniture, grey dirty tiles in the bathroom, and mattresses flatter than last week’s pancakes. Since it was almost 2:30 in the AM, this looked fabulous. It was clean, I’ll give them that. There was baby blue mosquito netting over the bed, making it look like some bizarre bassinet. Both twin beds had been pushed together so both could be covered by the netting. Surprise! We’re sleeping all cozy tonight!

We were rather rudely awoken by what I can only describe as a howler monkey followed by cannon fire at about 4am. This sucked. Royally. I was so tired. But I was eager to see what the place looked like in the light. When we got up (finally), I crawled out of the bassinet and looked off the balcony. I could see the Indian Ocean from our window. Below, a young woman was sweeping the courtyard. It was going to be a good day.



You know how I’ve said that Dubai has this stray cat problem? Well, for Sri Lanka it’s dogs. They are everywhere. Some stray cats, but mostly dogs. Miscellaneous cows, goats, and chickens wander the streets. Little three wheeled cars called tuk tuks that look like someone stole them off the teacup ride at the state fair zip up and down the streets.

There are stray people, too. After we had breakfast and checked out, we drove down past the beach. At the far end, there is a collection of ramshackle slums. They are made of branches, bits of plastic, old fencing, and whatever bits people could find to give them some shelter. Sure, there are nice houses here and there with beautiful tiled roofs, elegant concrete walls, and nice cars. But the majority of the people here live in old buildings, sometimes with the entire front open to the world. Nature encroaches everywhere, crawling up broken walls and snaking though doorways and across paths. Palm, banana, coconut, and other trees are everywhere as well as huge ferns and other flora that I cannot name. There are lush flowers in reds, oranges, and whites everywhere. For all that these people live on what they can, they do it in a beautiful setting.

Our guide is a young man, and our driver, although he doesn’t speak much English, smiles and laughs often. Especially as we gasp for breath as we slog up some hill. We drove nearly two hours to our guide’s home town of Kurunegala. On the way, one of my friends had mentioned that she would like to try one of the king coconuts. This nice young man stopped the van and picked some up for us from a roadside stand. He then took us to his mother’s house on the outskirts of Kurunegala where our driver split them open for us to drink. They taste more like pumpkin or squash than coconuts.



We checked into our hotel in Kurunegala called the Kandyan Reaches. It’s definitely a step up. Much newer, only a few stains on the sheets and carpets, and the furniture only looks slightly water damaged. The ants were a bit of a bother.

We started off the day by seeing a Hindu Temple. Seems most of these places will let one in and take pictures for a donation. It was so interesting to see an actual Hindu temple in use. There were offerings in various places, incense burning here and there, and flower garlands around the various Hindu gods.

After that, we headed up into the mountains a ways to see a statue of Buddha in progress. It is being carved out of a mountainside. The Buddhist monks hold services on a table under a tent in front of it. It’s huge, has to be at least thirty feet tall. My guide mentioned that we should never take pictures of ourselves with our back to Buddha. It’s disrespectful.



We then went to another Buddhist temple. This one employed an elephant to help move trees and haul wood. As with most temples, we had to remove our shoes and walk barefoot on the gravel and paved stones. According to our guide, shoes interfere with our spiritual connection. We saw a large Buddha reclining. There was a smiling young Buddhist monk (hot young religious hottie) hanging out in one of the shrines. The temple itself is about 2500 years old and people still come to worship and ask advice of the monks. The ceilings are carved and painted in bright colors, with not much evidence of restoration. I find it astounding that after so many hundreds of years that the pictures are still so clear.

Toward the evening, we got a breathtaking view of Kurunegala from the mountaintop. We drove all the way to the top where a big twenty foot white Buddha overlooks Kurunegala. One can see the whole valley when standing next to Buddha. Mist hung over the mountains and wove in and out like an old man’s beard. A waxing moon was rising over the valley. Monkeys were spotted in the trees on the way up. Real ones. Just hanging out in branches. On the way down, we caught a family group moving down into the lower trees as the sun was setting. They were crossing the road and hanging out on the wall. Must have been twenty of them, all ages. We opened the door of the van so we could take pictures, but Aruna warned us that they were dangerous. They could attack and bite if they felt threatened (or thought you had food). Our guides seem to think its funny that we love Buddhas, monkeys, and elephants.



We are watching out for mosquitoes since these carry malaria. We can’t drink the water or even brush our teeth with it. We also have to avoid fresh unpeeled fruit and veggies and most dairy since the pasteurization is questionable. I already miss putting milk in my tea. We had an awesome first day. Can’t wait to see what tomorrow brings.


December 20, 2010

So, we started off the day strangely as it is. Aruna came to the hotel and informed us that he is sick and won’t be seeing us again until we are taken to the airport at the end of the tour. He promised that Kumara, our driver, knew where to go and that guides would meet us at every site. So far, today has proven that to be true. We drove two and a half hours out to Pollenuruwa, which is a palatial complex dating back umpteen years. It was built by Sri Lankan kings. It’s something crazy like 30 hectares. I felt like I was on the Travel Channel! Because that is seriously the only place I have seen sights such as these. Buddhist monks, almost 2500 of them, used to worship and pray at Pollenuruwa. There was a palace with over 1000 rooms. In the museum are all kinds of images of Buddha, as well as some Hindu statues of Ganesha and Shiva. The palace grounds are overgrown in moss. The trees are twisted around stone walls and stares. Stupas bigger than most Catholic churches dot the grounds. The wonderful thing? Buddhists still worship here. On the far side of the complex are statues carved right into the mountainside depicting the four stages of Buddha: The Emancipation where he renounces his normal life to pursue enlightenment, his life as a teacher, when he attained enlightment, and finally his death. And I now can tell the difference between a reclining Buddha and a Buddha in death. All about the positioning of the hands and feet! Who knew?! Love this Buddhist stuff. I can see how conducive the place is to religious study and worship. If one stands at the bottom of any path or sits on the mossy wall, all you can hear is the sound of the wind, the soft whoosh of the trees, and the occasional chirp of a monkey and whistle of birds. I could have easily just sat on the wall for an hour and contemplated my being. However, that wasn’t an option so I made do by making note of the restfulness and ran to catch up with my group. I took off my shoes (as one does in a temple) and walked the path that many Buddhist monks and devotees had walked over a thousand years ago and still do today. I learned that my feet are very soft indeed. A Sri Lankan family was walking around, and they giggled at how daintily I was walking around. Can’t help it that my feet are soft, white, and perfect ;) We had a fabulous and knowledgeable guide named Prema who took us through the museum and complex. Covered in monkeys, dogs, and random cows. Got to hand feed a monkey, touch his little paw. When they started to swarm because they knew we had food, it was time to beat a hasty retreat back up the stairs to hide in the shadow of Buddha.



A word about people with no filters: Sri Lankans have no filter. I guess peoples who have always lived in close quarters and have no understanding of personal space also lack that filter that most Americans and Europeans value, especially when talking about a person’s weight. People will tell you right to your face that you are fat here. All the time. For a member of our group, this is very difficult. I honestly don’t think they are trying to be mean. It’s just that they say what they are thinking, and they talk about everything and don’t pussyfoot around. Their lives have been such that they have never been allowed the luxury of pussyfooting. Ergo, people ask if you like French fries and eat a whole lot of them, or offer you elixirs to make you thin. Things are like they are, and they figure that they are just saying it like it is. But an American woman and her weight are a delicate matter, so some people are going to get run over by an elephant with “karma” written across its butt. “Nuff said.

Kumara, our driver, has fabulous eyes. On the way home, we were driving down yet another long, dark, winding road with a veritable landmine of potholes when he pulled over suddenly. He shouted “Look look! Elephant!” And sure enough, there in the light of the van headlights were three wild Sri Lankan elephants grazing by the side of the road. Just hanging out, munching, watching cars and trucks go by. Granted, we couldn’t stay but for a minute because traffic was coming, but it was awesome and more than a little awe-inspiring to see these giants just hunkering down on the road for an evening munch. Bless Kumara and his keen eyes!

Our hotel today is the Grand Regent. When we arrived, we could hear a small child chanting through a loudspeaker some distance away. We were told by the hotel manager that tonight is a special night for Buddhists because it is the last full moon of the year. The chanting went on for over an hour, eventually led by an older man whom I can only assume is a Buddhist monk. It echoed through the jungle and into the night.The name "Grand Regent" is misleading, because it’s not the modern place that the name implies. It is set back off the road in the jungle. Winding stone paths led us back to our room which is simple, clean, and complete with sea foam green mosquito netting this time over the bed. Looks like a cupcake, it does. The restaurant is a tiled and stucco affair, open to the air on three sides. Dinner was typical Sri Lankan: rice, eggplant with chilli paste, coconut with tomatoes and onions, fish, pumpkin with a nice spicy sauce, and papadams which are kind of like a fried wonton wrapper. Finished off with fresh pineapple and papaya. Ever squeeze lime over papaya? Try it! Adds a nice citrus to it. Lovely.

Anyway, we head out to Sirigiya tomorrow morning EARLY to climb the Lion Rock. Some teachers here from Abu Dhabi said it took them about an hour. Yeah, so that means about two hours for me! Wish me luck!

December 21, 2010

There was a frog in our shower this morning. He very obligingly jumped into the waste basket for me. Not sure if he was some strange poison dart frog, but he was a cute fellow.

At six thirty we met in the hotel restaurant for tea. After that, Kumara drove us down winding dirt roads to Sigiriya, also known as the Lion Rock. I truly did not realize how tall it was until I walked down the long ancient dirt road and stared up at the colossal rock jutting up out of the jungle. Our guide for today, Suranga, told us how the young Sri Lankan king had murdered his father and taken the throne. He tried to kill his brothers, but they fled to India. He moved the capital from Anadhapura to Sigiriya and built huge fortifications around it. The two outer moats still contain crocodiles, hence the “No Swim” signs. The walls were built high, and the rock itself was darn near impregnable if the stairs were blocked off and the ladders pulled up. One could withstand a siege there for quite some time. However, it was more about the king’s pleasure than anything else. Water flowed downhill, into the lower gardens and powered the fountains and filled his pools. He had over 500 wives and concubines from all over Asia and Africa. He liked his women, wine, and music. When it actually came time to fight his brothers, he didn’t want to fight near his lovely palace with all of it’s hanging gardens, naked frescoes of his women, and dancers and musicians. No, he picked a spot a few miles away past Pollenuruwa. He brought all of his soldiers and elephants all geared up for war. Then, a key person fled with half of the army. The king knew he would lose, so he killed himself. The other brothers moved the capital back to Anadhapura. Monks came and inhabited the Lion Rock for awhile, but the isolation soon forced them to move to Pollenruwa. The jungle reclaimed the Lion Rock Palace and grounds until the British began to uncover and restore it. And there I stood, at the bottom of this ancient fortress amidst ancient gardens and fountains, wondering how the hell I was going to make it up all of those stairs.



The king was carried.

I soon wished someone would carry me!

It was…gods…a very long way up. Our guide Surengara was amazing. Never did he rush us, allowed us to take breaks when we needed. A few guys followed us up to help us and keep us from falling. Or rather, they were helping my friend who was afraid of heights and physically challenged in the manner of climbing. I refused help. For some reason, I felt it my mission, my person goal, to make it to the very top without aid. Perhaps it was because I failed to make it to the top of the sand dunes in Cairo a few years ago. I missed out on that view of the desert. And by golly I wasn’t going to miss anything else! I hauled my ass up those stairs, dragging my feet on the white marble and pulling myself up on the rusted steel stairs hewn into the rock. We had to go up some winding stairs to see the frescoes of the women; winding stairs suck when you are a couple hundred feet off the ground looking down off an open cliff face! Vertigo much? Um, yeah! Sheesh. Up, up, up, to the lion entrance we went. Slogging though the humidity and sweating up uneven stairs worn by over a thousand years of trodding feet. Holy cow. My friend quit over halfway up. She had made it even farther than she planned to go and God bless her for it! My friends were already heading up the last few steel staircases and marble steps. I resolved that I was going to make it even if I freaking died at the top! I was gasping, my chest hurt, and my thighs were burning. I kept stopping to catch my breath, but I kept going. Surengara sat at the top of the last set of stairs. He pointed out into the jungle to another large rock. He said “We going to climb this one this afternoon!” Schmuck. I slogged my way up the last marble steps to the highest veranda where the kings rooms used to be.

I made it.



There were two last steps, the highest point of the Lion Rock. I climbed those last two, and looked out over the jungle. I could see monkeys jumping from tree to tree, could hear birds singing in the branches far below. I could see all of Sigiriya and all the way out to Pollenuruva. It was when I was standing on the highest step that our guide told us how many steps we had climbed. 1202. One thousand, two hundred and two uneven, worn steps of stone, marble, and steel.

We saw the pools where the king used to bathe when he got tired of wine and music. The foundations for his women’s rooms are still there. We meandered past his throne where he used to meet with important people of his court. We passed through the second gate of rock and saw where the stone was hewn away where the ornate entrances used to hang suspended in the stone.

Let me tell you, going up is one thing. But heading down those slippery worn stairs when you are already beat is no picnic. It’s downright dangerous. Heehee, check out the pic of the sign at the top ;) But I made it down, too! Go, me!

Of all of the things we have done so far, this was the big physical challenge. And I made it. Probably lost two kilos in the process and gained some butt muscle ;) I was tired, but I felt like I had won a huge competition…with myself.

We came back to the hotel for breakfast and showers. These kind people knew we were coming back and had already set the table for us. Ever had a thin pancake with bananas in it with honey on top? Highly recommended. Roti is a little cake made of wheat flour, rice flour, coconut, and other things that I cannot name but also tastes lovely with honey. They also made us fresh papaya smoothies. Lovely. Absolutely lovely.

It rained this afternoon and the mud made the roads kind of hazardous so we did not get to go on our safari. Rats. That’s okay. We will see elephants at the Elephant Orphanage. We see monkeys EVERYWHERE. We sat in the hotel restaurant while the rain poured down, drank Ceylon tea, and talked about nothing and everything. That’s what people at loose ends do; relive parts of their lives so that they don’t forget. The hotel manager says we’re having noodles tonight. Yay! Thank goodness, because I have eaten more rice in the last few days that I have in a whole year combined. Enough with the rice!

December 22, 2010

Today, it rained still but we left the Grand Regent and headed out down the muddy roads toward the Gold Temple on the road to Kandy. And here I thought I was done with steps! Sheesh. The Gold Temple is exactly that. There is a huge gold Buddha seated at the top of the mountain. We perused the museum first, meandering over golden Buddha statues from all over the world, copper etchings depicting Buddha’s life, and a small scale replica of the huge procession that takes place in Kandy every year in August with one thousand dancers, elephants, fire eaters, and drummers. They accompany the reliquary that conceals the tooth of Buddha that resides in Kandy.

After we were done with the museum climbed another couple hundred uneven, worn, and sometimes non-existent steps up to the monastery. We explored manmade and natural caves that contained hundreds of images of Buddha in paintings and statuary. My friends don’t agree, but I rather like padding around on the old stone in my bare feet. I didn’t even mind doing it in the rain. I love seeing the lit candles in the shrines and seeing the Buddhists and Hindus (there’s actually a Hindu shrine there too) make their offerings. There’s something so peaceful in their worship.




And then we had to descend on the wet stone steps.

It wasn’t pretty.

My butt hurt.

‘Nuff said.

After the Golden Temple, we stopped at a spice garden. We were given a tour of all of the plants that they use in their Ayurvedic treatments. Have you ever smelled fresh jasmine? It’s heaven. Vanilla beans? Sumptuous. And fresh cinnamon is to die for. I got a short massage from a young man studying Ayurvedic medicine. Yeah, I nearly asked him to be my cabana boy and follow me around the world. We got a short demonstration from the Ayurvedic doctor about how the different spices and herbs can be used. They were all such very nice people. I bought some spiced tea with all natural pure vanilla extract. Cannot wait to sit back and have a cup of that! And have you ever thought of putting cocoa in tea? Awesome. Highly recommend it.

Once we got to Kandy, we checked into our hotel called the Senani. It was all the way up on the side of the mountain. And our room was on the first floor. We had to climb six flights of stairs to get to the lobby and restaurant. My glutes are going to be so tight after this trip! After lunch, we went to a cultural dance. It’s so interesting to see the men dance. Purportedly, their costumes contain over 67 pieces and are akin to decorative body armor. The ladies did a dance in honor of the peacock and bobbed their heads and dipped their bodies; it was so graceful. They also did firewalking, but I have seen that so many times that I did not run to see that.



Afterwards, we went to the Temple of the Tooth. We crossed the busy road in the dark and rain, led by an old man who also was missing some teeth. Maybe he donated them to the temple? He whisked us along the sidewalks and winding paths, telling us to hurry up. Apparently, the monks only open the chamber with the tooth’s casket three times a day, and if we didn’t move it we were going to miss it. A word about queues in Sri Lanka: only Americans and Europeans line up for anything. Everyone else pushes. The guide took our money, pushed his way through the ticket line and got our tickets. We stuck to him like white on rice as he wove his way through the crowds of Europeans, British, and Asian tourists. He pushed his way to the front of the line to see the casket and we followed. You literally only get two seconds to see it. The soldier and monk standing by the door ensure that everyone keeps moving. The old guide then rushed us over to see the library which holds books written by the monks, some of them hundreds of years old. That’s another spot where you have maybe two minutes to look. The rest of the tour was a bit of a blur; it was hard to hear because his English wasn’t that good and there were too many people. I heard the French lady cussing us out as he cut our group right in front hers quite plainly ;) We did see the dome that is used to carry the casket on the elephant in the procession in August. He also took us outside to see the last King of Kandy’s throne room and to see the spot where the tooth casket is loaded onto the elephant for the procession. All in all, it was a fantastic experience to see the temple all lit up at night and see such treasured religious objects. I only wish that we hadn’t had to run to see everything.

As we put our shoes on back inside, our guide told us of the bomb that went off back in the 90’s right at the entrance of the temple. It had been delivered in a truck and exploded, damaging the entrance and the front of the temple. That explains the soldiers and police everywhere. Some cute soldier boy who had obviously lost his bet with his other boy soldier friends asked us where we were from. He had his hands on his hips, trying to look important, as if to say “Hey, baby! You like my uniform?” Kids in uniform. Goodness gracious. Cute, though ;)

We went back to the hotel for dinner. I am greatly looking forward to seeing the elephants tomorrow and seeing the tea plantations. I do love me a cuppa. Definitely bringing some home!

It’s almost Christmas. Surrounded by palm trees and elephant ear plants with lizards on the ceilings and frogs in the shower, it certainly is different. Our driver Kumara found an English radio station that was playing Christmas music. It’s so out of place, but they celebrate Christmas here, too. It will be Christmas, just not Christmas as I know and love it. I’ll make the best of it, but a good part of me is far away at home.

 
December 23, 2010
 
So, Kumara informed us last night that it did not make sense to see the elephants this morning because they are on the road to Colombo. We argued with him for a bit, but in the end we decided that he knew what he was talking about. So, we hopped into the van once more. We went to the Royal Botanical Gardens in Kandy. This place reminded me of the Botanical Gardens in Singapore, but less manicured and more wild. They did not have as many orchids as Singapore, but they were just as beautiful. There's something in the shape of an orchid, something divine that I can't quite put my finger on. It's amazing how one species can be so lush and diverse in color and shape. There were also trees from other parts of Asia. I love the tall twisted bodhi and banyan trees. They look like they have long fingers that just want to reach out and touch you. The long paths were lined with tall trees and huge groves of giant bamboo. I have never seen bamboo like this. My friend said she had seen it in China; this stuff had to be about twelve inches wide. Wowsers. After we wandered for a couple of hours in the flora, we made our way back to the van.
 
We said goodbye to Kandy and started down the winding roads that eventually led up into the moutains toward the tea plantations. Higher and higher we went, passing what seemed like endless fields of bright green tea plants. I often wondered if Kumara knew where he was going because we had passed so many. Finally, at the very top of the mountain, we stopped at Mackwoods. It was established by a British sea captain in 1841 and has seven locations throughout Sri Lanka. A very nice lady took us on a tour and showed us the plants. I had no idea that green, white, and black tea all came from the same plant, just different parts of it. She took us inside to the factory and showed us how the tea was processed. It smelled divine. I felt like I was inside a teapot surrounded by the scent of herbal goodness. After the tour, we were allowed to sample a pot of their wares. I was in awe of the Christmas tree in the lounge and actually of the lounge itself. It was as if someone had transplanted it from old England itself. The tree was festooned with red ribbons and old fashioned ornaments. It very much reminded me of that old Victorian style. The tea was delicious. They use real sugar here, not processed white sugar. Fresh tea. Nothing like it. Needless to say we lingered a bit over our tea before meandering over to the gift shop. Kumara was standing outside waiting, probably thinking to himself "What is so interesting to Westerners about tea?"


 
After our visit to the tea plantation, we headed down the other side of the mountain to our next hotel. This one was really odd considering its location. It's called the Alpine. It truly looks like an old ski lodge. There were cotton balls glued to every window pane to look like snow. The lobby, lounge, and reception area were all decorated for Christmas. The wood was a shiny golden color and there were fireplaces in every room. We had a little bit of a scare when they said that they didn't have a reservation for us, but they found a room for us eventually. Our room was rather neat because on one floor it had a fireplace and queen bed, but there was a ladder/ steps to a kind of loft where there was another bed. The ceiling slanted down, creating kind of a cozy feeling. By the time we got settled, it was raining rather hard. Kumara had wanted to take us out to a lake, but we told him we'd rather stay in that get all wet again. Now, here's the awkward bit. Remember how Kumara had told us that we would see the elephants tomorrow? Well, to make a long story short, Kumara had messed up the itinerary because he did not understand that we were supposed to have a full day of shopping in Colombo that day. He had thought he was just going to take us to our hotel after the elephants and that would be it for the day. We are going to have to back track up over that damn mountain three hours to get to the elephants, and from there it's another two hours to Colombo. We are going to lose almost half a day. Needless to say, this put a kind of sour twist on things. We made up for it by making up our own game of pool and sampling the bar's signature cocktails ;)
 
Another point of contention at this point is the lack of wifi. Granted, we are in Sri Lanka, not Paris. But so far, all of the hotels have either only had limited access or none at all. I want to be able to Skype Mom, but can't without my own computer. I've been lugging my laptop all through Sri Lanka so I can Skype on Christmas. My friend did the same. The idea of not being able to reach home is very upsetting, especially since it seems that up here in the mountains my phone cannot call out. Ah, well. It's going to be a very early day tomorrow.
 
December 24, 2010
 
We left at quarter of six this morning. The Alpine very kindly supplied us with breakfast to take with us. Kumara asked along the way if we wanted to stop and see this, that, or the other thing. Each time, we said "No, elephants." We were going to see the elephants come hell or high water! Back up over the mountain, down the winding roads to the other side and through the jungles we went. It was still a bit bitter, having to back track all of that way. I was starting to feel a bit sinusy, and the twisting and turning of the roads made me a bit sick. When we finally got to Pinnawela, it was still drizzling a bit. Kumara quick found us a guide who showed us where to get  tickets. Elephant baths were cancelled for the day because of the rain. The guard told us that we could not take video unless we paid extra. But since my little camera took video, who would ever know? ;)
 
We were kind of confused as to where to go, but we eventually found a barn where two babies were being fed. For a thousand rupees (about $10 USD), you could bottle feed one of them. This is where I felt a bit conflicted. The elephant orphanage had begun so it could care for orphaned elephants. Over the years, it had grown from a few to a whole herd. The government had taken it over. Sure, I would have liked to feed a baby elephant. But something about it being chained in front of a huge crowd of people clamoring to take pictures and get their turn feeding it turned me off about it. Seemed exploitative to me.
 
I wandered off on my own and up to where the rest of the herd was hanging around. None of them were chained. They were just meandering about their field. A huge bull was chained off to the side under an awning. From the size of those tusks, I could guess why! A mahut (guys who take care of elephants) talked me into walking into the herd to get my picture taken petting one of the elephants. Ever been face to trunk with one? Much taller than you think! Their hair feels like wire, and she was very muddy and gritty. The guy kept telling me to turn around, but I really didn't want to take my eyes off of her lest my demise by trampling be caught on film. Their eyes are almost on the sides of their heads, but you can tell when they fix their beady eyes on you. She was staring me in the face, but not agressively. I wandered around taking pictures of the herd. A ten day old baby was hiding under its mother. It was all legs, clumsy, but inquisitive. It kept trying to walk out into the crowd. The mahuts would tap on its feet with their sticks to tell it to go back. I was able to get close enough to get my picture taken with it. I kept expecting its mother to go berserk, but she was just like "Yeah, I know I have the cutest baby in the world so go on and take pictures!"


 
Now, our guide had told us before we went in to not give anyone else any money. We had bought tickets, so we did not have to pay for anything else. However, every time a mahut talked someone into getting their picture taken, he would ask them for money. I watched all of the mahuts as they fleeced the crowd. I refused to pay them. A pair of them even followed me for a bit after they took my picture. I flat out said no. I had bought a ticket, and wasn't going to take part in the little racket they had going. And they couldn't argue, because they knew they weren't supposed to be charging money for people to take pictures. Still, it's not like these people get paid a lot. Who could blame them for trying to make some extra cash? And although it seemed like the government had turned the orphanage into a cash cow, it could not be denied that the elephants were in good health, were well fed, and had lots of room to live. That cannot be said as much for the wild ones. Their habitat is disappearing; we had remarked how we had not expected habitation in every part of Sri Lanka, but indeed it seemed like there was very little of the jungle left uninhabited. I had to admit that the government is doing the best they can with what they have, and the people are trying to get on the best way they know how.
 
After Pinnawela, we started on the road back to Colombo to spend the afternoon shopping. The traffic was horrendous. Kumara pointed out that it was Christmas Eve; I had actually forgotten. We listened to Christmas music on the way to Colombo and wondered what kind of tour we would get in the city. Well, the answer to that was simple: none. The tour company had not planned for a guide for Colombo, which was ridiculous since we did not know one thing about getting around. Our driver did not know what we meant by shopping, so he took us to a mall. To which we objected; we can go to malls anywhere. We wanted to see one of the open markets, places to buy textiles, artwork, etc. He did not get it, and this is only because his English is limited. We stopped for lunch at a Pizza Hut, which tasted awesome after so much rice and curry. After lunch, we drove around some more. Kumara was a trooper, he drove us everywhere we wanted, even if it meant going in a circle! He tried to point things out to us as best he could, like the President's house, the Hall of Justice, and other big landmarks. We eventually did find a government owned store that specialized in Sri Lankan handicrafts. I spotted it and remembered reading about it. It had batik, woodwork, sculptures and engravings, and artwork. It was what we were looking for, but we only had about half an hour because they were closing early for Christmas. After we were done, Kumara said hopefully "We go to Negambo now?" Yes!
 
Traffic was horrible, but once we got away from Colombo it was better. We had told our guide via Kumara's cell phone that we did not want to go back to that very first hotel and that we wanted a place with wifi. We were desperate because it was Christmas Eve and we wanted to speak to our families. If we didn't get a place with wifi, I was going to cry. We drove up and down the streets of Negambo. Aruna had found us a place, but Kumara had no clue where it was. He eventually called the owners who were able to direct him. The Villa extra is small and only has a few rooms, but they are all clean with comfy mattresses and pillows. The couple that owns it is German. One of my friends speaks German, and as soon as the van stopped she jumped out to ask if they had wifi. When she came back all smiles, we knew all was good. The couple very kindly helped us upstairs then showed us to a nice seafood restaurant for dinner. We relaxed and enjoyed Christmas Eve. A bunch of Sri Lankan kids were running up and down the roads dressed as Santa and singing Christmas carols. A pair of lizards curled up around the light over our table. You know that feeling you get when a trip is starting to wind down? Yeah, it was like that. This was our last stop before going to the airport tomorrow night.
 
When we got back, I jumped on Skype to speak with my mother. That was what I was really looking forward to. It was so good to speak to her, and jeez I had so much to tell her about! Monkeys, lizards, Buddhas, elephants, temples, oh my! And I just wanted to see her face on Christmas. That's what I really wanted.
 
At midnight, Negambo has exploded with fireworks and firecrackers. We can hear carolers and people in a nearby church singing. Merry Christmas, everyone!
 
December 25, 2010
 
Finally, we were able to sleep in! The owners prepared a wonderful Christmas breakfast of fresh pineapple, papaya, toast, and tea for us. They even had little gifts of lovely smelling Ayurvedic soap for us! So sweet! After breakfast, we slathered on more bug spray (raining= lots of mosquitos) and headed out to the beach. We did not want to lay out, just to walk around and dip our toes into the Indian Ocean. Apparently, it's a Sri Lankan thing to go to the beach on Christmas because the beach was teeming with families picnicing, boating, and swimming. It was still grey out, so it wasn't a good day to tan but it was obviously a good day for everything else! We took a few pictures, and then wandered to the street to window shop. We had been told by other teachers that Sri Lanka was the place to shop for jewelry, and boy were they right! Every other store in Negambo is a jewelry store. Mostly silver, and all kinds of stones. And if you come in without a guide, they are more willing to haggle because then they don't have to pay the guide a commission. Yes, apparently if a guide brings you to a store, the store has to pay the guide a commission if you buy anything! Yeah, I learned that in Cairo because the guide openly told us that he would get a kickback for bringing us into certain stores. So, if you go shopping, don't bring your guide!
 
I have to say that Sri Lanka has some of the most beautiful stone jewelry that I have ever seen. All of the settings were very modern, which I did not particularly care for. But the stones were gorgeous! Blue topaz, pink sapphire, lemon quartz, amethyst, and peridot to name a few! I had already purchased an antique piece set with moonstones in Kandy and had thought that was good enough for me. But a silver ring set with a moonstone and peridots caught my eye. Merry Christmas to me!
 
We had lunch at a little German place where I tried schnitzel for the first time. Not too bad! We went back to the hotel for a little nap and to avoid what looked like an impending downpour. My one friend has been sick the entire trip, and I was beginning to feel more than a little rundown. We went to a great little Italian place for Christmas dinner. It was run by a family, and small boys were running food to tables while their older brothers and and their father took orders. If I could guess, their mother probably works in the kitchen :) They make great spinach gnocchi! Sure, the bruschetta was on plain white toast, but it's Sri Lanka, not Rome. Still tasted garlicky and wonderful. At dinner, we exchanged the little gifts we had gotten for each other. I had gotten them all these cute little wooden boxed of ceylon tea from Mackwoods tea plantation. One friend got me a nice scarf, and another gave me a carved seashell with elephants on it. It wasn't like Christmas at home, but we still had a nice Christmas. When we got back from dinner, I Skyped Mom again and wonder upon wonders, my little brother was there, too! Woohoo! Haven't seen his face in ages and it was so good to talk to him. With a healthy dose of home, I felt much better about Christmas :)
 
As we wait here at the hotel for our ride to the airport, I have to admit that it was an adventure. It was one of those vacations that was more about experiences and learning about other cultures. Sri Lanka is fascinating. I have learned more about Buddhism than I ever knew. Now that I have seen the cultural side, I am ready for a lazy vacation. Maybe next time I will go to one of the resort towns down south and spend my time relaxing on the beach. But now I have to catch a plane back to Dubai!
 
Merry Christmas!


 

Friday, November 19, 2010

Slingin' and Singin in Singapore

Last Friday, we hopped an Emirates flight to Singapore. It wasn't a bad ride, although the seats are narrow and the food mediocre. When we landed in Changi Airport, it was almost 8pm. We didn't know where anything was, but most of the signs are in English and in Chinese (the language of trade there is English). We soon found our way to customs. We already knew that gum was banned, that you could be fined $200 for spitting, etc. And more heinous crimes like vandalism would get us caned (remember that kid in the news a few years ago? Yeah, it's like that.) Customs was fairly easy, and we soon made our way to the taxi queue. We did not have to wait long, and soon we were flying from the airport along the highways of Singapore.

The first thing that struck me was the humidity. Singapore is very close to the equator and is surrounded by water, so it's very humid. I had almost forgotten what humidity felt like. Well, in Singapore it's an everyday occurrence. The other thing was how lush and green it is. Coming from a place where everything is varying shades of brown except for the few patches of green that survive through the wonders of irrigation, I was just inundated with green. Huge ferns, palm trees, tropical trees that I can't name, flowers, and grass. I just wanted to roll in it all. I had not realized how green-deprived I was until I was able to bask in earthly hues. Fabulous.

We got to the Riverview Hotel, which as hotels go was not all that spectacular. It did have a nice creek that ran along behind it. The creek was lined with hotels, cafes, and bistros. Singapore itself retains very little authenticity because it is so modern, like an Asian New York. It's all about what's new, what's in, what's trendy. The markets and stores are glutted with imports from the mainland. I don't think I saw one bit of handmade anything except in Little India. Still, it's got that Asian flavor and this intersection of cultures that is just fascinating.

We sat out on the deck of the hotel cafe and had a late dinner. We noticed huge groups of young people wandering about, sitting on the bridges, benches, and anywhere they could find a seat. They all had plastic bags with soda and food. They seemed to be having little late night picnics wherever they could find a spot. We were actually taken aback by the shortness of the skirts that a lot of the girls wore. And then we realized that we had already been in Dubai for too long because we were no longer used to seeing skin. We could see legs and laughed because we were absolutely scandalized.

We woke up early the next morning, and I got a healthy dose of how expensive Singapore was. $30 for the breakfast buffet! Yikes! The entire place is priced like a big theme park, with $6 sodas, $10 beer, $15 entrees, and sides are all a la carte. Anymawho, we took a bus tour of the city to kind of get a lay of the land and take in some of the major sites. We saw the Singapore Flyer, which is thirty meters higher than the London Eye and is the biggest wheel of its kind. We passed the Raffles Hotel. Sir Raffles "discovered" Singapore when he established a free port there back in the 1800's. We walked along the waterfront and saw a hotel (cannot remember the name of it to save my life) with what looked like a boat balanced on top. Our guide told us that this "boat" actually had palm trees and a huge pool on top.
After we meandered around the waterfront, our guide took us to Little India. Singapore has quite a large Indian population, with a good number of Malays, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, and Western expats. For such a small place, it is bursting at the seams with diversity. Little India was full of winding streets, market stalls, food vendors, and stores selling all manner of Indian textiles, decorative goods, and clothing. I was rather enthrallled by the flower garland makers. They weave flower garlands from fresh flowers for weddings, special events, and for Indian ladies to wear in their hair.

After we visited Little India, we were taken to a jewelry factory with beautiful gold and precious stone jewelry. That was the selling part of the tour. The tour operators probably got a percentage of any sales made. Luckily, they didn't spend too much time trying to sell us overpriced high end jewelry. Our next stop was in Chinatown. The culture of Singapore is influenced in moderate part by mainland China. I have to say that my favorite part of Chinatown was our visit to the Buddhist temple. We were lucky enough to be allowed in while services were taking place. I had to cover up my shoulders with a musty cape because I was wearing a sleeveless shirt. The monks were at the front of the room chanting. It's an eerie sound, all five of them chanting together in Chinese in a monotone but somehow harmonious tune. It was almost as if the sound itself was tickling the edges of heaven. The temple itself was marvelous. It was covered in images of Buddha, flowers, offerings, and shrines.


We also went to the Singapore Botanical Gardens and National Orchid Garden. A little slice of paradise in the middle of the Asian equivalent of New York. Fountains, waterfalls, pools, winding paths, ferns, trees, and just about every color, shape, and size of orchid imaginable. I could have built myself a little house in the middle of that lovely jungle and lived there quite happily...with the addition of a hammock and cabana boy.


That night, we went to Clark's Quay which is a trendy night spot full of bars, restaurants, and fancy stores. We tried our first Singapore Sling, which is gin, cherry juice, and a couple of other things that I cannot currently recollect. We finished out the night in a rock and roll bar where a live band from Canada was belting out cover tunes. The girls played pool and we did a couple of shots before calling it a night.

The next morning, we got up and dressed in a hurry for a much anticipated trip to the Singapore Zoo. I had read a lot about this zoo, and how it was a step above many others because the habitats were so large and as much like the animals' natural habitats as possible. We were kind of blown away when we got there because it was just like we'd read about. It was huge, full of large habitats, lots of trees, places to sit and watch the animals. We lost track of time and almost didn't make it to the breakfast at Ah Meng. You see, we were going to have breakfast with the orangutans. And when I say with, I mean they were in the restaurant with us. Their habitat abuts the restaurant and they have been trained to answer when the keepers call. They climb over the branches and follow a little bridge right over to the restaurant. The orangutans sit on perches and tree limbs while the keepers give a talk. Meanwhile, everyone is walking around getting breakfast at the buffet, eating, and taking pictures. We were so entranced walking around the zoo that we got there late, but we did manage to get a table right up where the orangutans were sitting.
I had breakfast with orangutans. In a million years, I never would have thought that possible. The zoo had lots of really neat residents. The white tigers were stunning. One was taking a swim, while another was lazing on her rock. One, however, was pacing back and forth along the rock ledge. He had that look like he was trying to figure out from what point he would have to jump to launch himself across the moat and into the crowd. I guess he did not have his Wheaties that morning, the cranky boy. The elephants were quite endearing. Their habitat was quite large. The traditional elephant handler is called a mahut, and each elephant worked with a trainer. They moved logs, knocked down trees, walked along narrow logs to show their agility, and snuck bananas out of their trainers pockets. Loved it! Made me so excited to see the elephant sanctuary in Sri Lanka in December!

I happened to spy a plaque outside the Australia animal habitats. It talked about Steve Irwin and how he used to visit this particular zoo often. It said that Singapore Zoo was considered the sister zoo to Australia Zoo in Queensland. I don't care what people say, I loved that guys. I survived long nights in the studio thanks to back-to-back episodes of the Croc Hunter. So there.

That evening, we headed out to Little India again for some shopping. What we did not know (although I had read briefly about this and the cab driver confirmed) was that it was absolutely packed with people. Many Indian workers come on two year contracts to Singapore, and their night off is Sunday. They were spilling out onto the roads because the sidewalks were full. The taxi driver quick let us off at the taxi stand. There we were, a couple of pasty white gals in a sea of mostly Indian men in a questionable part of town blocks from where we needed to be. What does one do? A hasty about-face and quick-march down the road! Whew! We found our way to a couple of fabric stores. We wanted sari fabric. I am a fabric whore. I admit it. I have a problem. And Indian textiles make my knees to all jelly-like and my willpower to mush. The colors, texture, surface design, and patterns make me swoon. Can't help it. I only bought two though. Give me at least some credit ;)

We meandered through shops, past the flower garland makers, and wove our way through stalls looking at clothing, trinkets, accessories, and all kinds of fabulous things. We were lucky enough to go into a store where a nice woman recognized how much we loved Indian textiles, so she said "You like? I take you to my big store!" It was raining, and she led us through the winding dark streets of Little India to her other store which was absolutely full of carpets, wall hangings, furniture, and antiques. I had seen a small wall hanging that I liked in her other store. It was brown, hand beaded in a lovely design. She told me her price, and then said she would offer it to me for less because she had offered it at that price to a customer just before me. She smiled, and I smiled. And on the inside, I thought "Oh, yes, let's dance, you and I." And we haggled. This is common in Indian culture. Nobody pays the asking price. I offered her this much, she countered with more. I pointed out problems in the stitching, she countered with the handbeading. I hesitated (overdramatically) because there were tiny tears on the back. I made my final offer. She took it. She was happy as a clam because my friend Kathy has the same problem I do and bought a wall hanging AND a carpet. She still made out in the end, and we fed our addictions for textiles and got an authentic taste of the local culture.

We were so exhilarate from shopping that we headed on over to the much celebrated and high end Raffles Hotel for a Singapore Sling at the Long Bar. We were told by several good authorities that one hasn't truly experienced Singapore until one has sipped a Singapore Sling at the Long Bar whilst throwing peanut shells on the floor. At $28, it's an expensive but neat experience. The hotel itself still retains much of it's colonial flavor and opulence. Luckily, it's free to walk around a bit.
The next morning, we packed our bags and headed off to Sentosa Island for a break from the city and some quality poolside and beach time. We had planned on taking a night train to Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia, but that fell through. I was all for an extra day at the beach. For the most part, Sentosa, like Singapore, is a synthetic attraction. It consists of restaurants, bars, hotels, a Universal Studios, two new casinos, and a theme park called Resort World. Still, beaches are beaches. I have to admit, I done good when I chose our hotel. I chose an eco-resort called Siloso. Instead of knocking down every tree in sight, they built their hotel around the trees. There are trees coming up through the walkways and extending up several floors. The walkways wind their way through the jungle from one part of the resort to the other. The pool is 95 meters long and is fed from a fresh water spring. There is a thirteen foot waterfall feeding the pool. It's crisp and refreshing after wandering around in the heat and humidity all day. We spent most of our first afternoon on the island just lazing by the pool.

That night we went out for a most wonderful dinner of Indian food. While we were waiting for the tram, some local boys came and sat down next to us. I figured they were talking about me because they gestured toward me. Before I know it, one of them is holding his camera up and says "Missus, take picture?" I was amused, so I said yes. The boy leaned toward me with a goofy smile while his friend took the picture. I thought I was done. The other boys each took a turn getting their picture taken with me. I must've looked especially hot. Maybe they mistook me for Natalie Portman ;) We hit the Wavehouse which is an awesome bar across from the Siloso. They have two wave pools where intrepid folks can wakeboard and bodyboard. We had kidnapped their tram driver, Sidi, earlier in the day for a ride and had promised him a shot. He introduced us to the staff. We got friendly with the manager Jun, who ordered us a few rounds of free shots. Yedh, the bartender, made us even better Singapore Slings than the Raffles Hotel. His were served in a hollowed out pineapple. Beat that, Raffles!
This is Sidi from the Wavehouse. We flagged him down and bummed a ride.

The next day, we went to the beach. It's a rather nice beach, albeit it small. It's located in a little cove with palm tree covered islands, clear green water, and lovely sun. The only thing that detracts from the view are the busy shipping lanes across the way. Ah, well. Nothing is perfect.

We went back to the Wavehouse that night to bring our trip to a close with our new friends. Kathy got up the gumption to try out the wakeboarding for herself. It was kind of bittersweet, because we knew we had to go back to our rooms and pack up to go home. We had had such a good time on the island. We agreed that if we ever came back to Singapore that we would stay at the Siloso on the island and take daytrips into the city. It's just so nice, lush, and green. It was the kind of restful, natural experience that we really wanted after being in the desert.

It was a good trip. It was my first taste of international travel from Dubai. Other teachers went to Kathmandu, some went to Amsterdam, some to Istanbul. Whenever there is any kind of break at school, the teachers scatter to the four winds with their passports and carry-ons to experience whatever they can. It's such a transient culture that I kind of stumbled upon and became a part of. Can't wait for the next trip!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Being Sick Abroad

I hates it.

Not because the healthcare system is bad mind you, but because I hate being sick in general and I hate it even more in a foreign country far away from my mother and familiar medication. So let's talk about the healthcare here.

I have the national insurance. Once I got my residency visa, I automatically got covered by the government healthcare. Luckily, there is a place near my school that accepts it. Sure, there are private healthcare insurances (especially since ours doesn't cover maternity or dental I think) but the school uses the national healthcare. I saw a general practitioner last night. She was a nice lady from Lebanon. She admired my Egyptian necklace and we talked a bit about our trips to Egypt. She and her nurse examined me just as well as any doctor would at home.

The office looked just like any other doctor's office, just bigger. It houses a whole bunch of specialists, too. She spoke pretty good English, as did most of the staff. The nurses were Arabic, Filipino, and Indian. Most of the doctors there were Indian or Arabic. The language that connects them all is English. Thank goodness for that.

I will say this. They give out medication like it's candy. The doctor wrote me no less than FOUR prescriptions: a nasal spray, a cold and flu med, an antibiotic, and an effervescent expectorant (dissolve in water and drink it). Talk about treatment by shock and awe! It's like they treat sickness by attacking it with a bit of everything! And I didn't pay for any of it. The copay for the visit came to 50 AED (about $15 USD). It was the cheapest doctor's visit I have ever had.

I went again today because I am having back problems. Again. I paid my 50 AED copay, and that included my x-rays and prescription. Amazing. What was also amazing was what the radiologist said. A few years back, I was in a car accident. That was when my back problems started. I had x-rays at that time, but was told that nothing showed up and that there was no bone injury. The doctor I saw today had x-rays taken, but not just of me lying flat but also lying on my side. The x-rays taken a few years ago were only of me lying flat if I remember correctly. The radiologist said he saw evidence of an older bone injury indicated by the disparity of the space between the disks at the lower end of my spine. He said that when there is a bone injury, sometimes it heals with a kind of bump which can irritate the nerves and cause the muscles to spasm. Right now, the muscles are so tight that they are pulling my spine completely straight which is what is causing discomfort when I stay in any position too long. This was all seen in the side view of my spine. Whodathunkit?

Anymawho, the long and short of it is they are recommending me for physical therapy. Again. They need to get a pre-approval for it. They have a ladies PT facility right there, only five minutes from school. They want me to come every day. Because the other doctor had prescribed such a barrage of medications, the ortho doctor did not want to give me pills. He did prescribe a muscle relaxing gel, though. Hopefully that will help release the deathgrip my muscles have on each other currently.

All in all? Yeah, healthcare is a strange experience here. The communication is fair, but stilted because I have to speak slowly and listen carefully to everything everyone says because they all have such thick accents from all over the place. The clinic is very busy and services mostly Arabs so I stick out like an elephant in the waiting room. But overall? A fairly positive experience, I would say. Definitely something good to say for their national healthcare here.

Friday, November 5, 2010

It's been a long week.

The accreditation committee was here for four days. We did not get an answer at the end of the week as to whether or not we will get accredited. They told us that we won't know until January. That's a long time to wait. Until then, I am going to forget about it. My department did get a commendation from them, though :)

I swear I am getting crazier with every passing day. I actually let the music teacher talk me into doing the talent show with her and a couple of other teachers. I put my hair into ponytails, and thought that they were quite big enough. My friend from secondary school didn't think so. She teased them out until it looked like I had a grand chandelier of hair. The look was completed with gold and turquoise eye shadow, orange lipstick, leggings, and a huge t-shirt. We were truly channelling the 80s. And it was SCARY! The song we sang was actually about the accreditation committee sung to the tune to "I Will Survive". LOL The students got such a kick out of seeing us sing! And the staff liked it so much that they requested we do it for the ENTIRE staff AND the accreditation committee at the debriefing meeting! HA! It was hysterical, and a ton of fun. I would never have done it years ago. I was too worried about what other people thought. I find that the more time goes by the less I give a damn what anyone thinks.

Is it November already? Really? I have been told that I am adjusting very well. Most people are actually rather surprised when I tell them that this is my first time overseas. Several have said they thought I must have been doing this for years. In a way, I am flattered. On the other hand, well, I don't know what to think. Some days I don't think I am doing so well. Some days are better than others. Some are downright excruciating and all I want to do is hide in my covers away from everything foreign and forget the desert outside my window. Forget all of the crappy Emirati women who actually cross to the other side of the walkway in the mall to avoid walking to close to the infidels. Yes, there aren't many of them, but there are some that are that ignorant. School and government bureaucracy drive me nuts on a daily basis. But whatever. I roll with it. That's all you can do. Roll with it.

I am going to Singapore next week for Eid. So looking forward to the Eid break! We could use the time off after this whole accreditation process. I am excited to actually start travelling. But in all honesty, there is so much to do here, too! I want to go on desert safari, go up to the top to the Burj Khalifa, snorkel in Oman, and head out to a couple of the souks. My list of things to do, places to see, and stuff to try out gets longer and longer! Yipe!

I am also trying to understand the tax situation at home. From what I read, I couldn't come home for more than thirty days each year. However, another teacher says we just can't be home for more than thirty days at a time or else we'll be considered residents. I will have to make sure, because it will make the difference between my coming home for two weeks at summer and two weeks at Christmas or for an entire month at summer and two weeks at Christmas. And next year, I AM coming home for Christmas. I am going to book my tickets in the summer so I can make sure I can go home. But for now, I am planning on Singapore next week and Sri Lanka in December.

Miss you. Lots.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Mamzar Beach

So, this week was a long week at school. I subbed in for some teachers for meetings, went to meetings, had other meetings, planned for students, blahblahblah. Long. And slightly irritating.

We left from school today to go to Mamzar beach. I hadn't been to the beach since I had gotten here, so I had asked some teachers from my department if they wanted to take a little afternoon trip. I must say that while the beaches here do not have boardwalks, they have a lot to offer. The sand on Mamzar is soft, although people need to take more care in cleaning up their cigarette butts. There are permanent wooden umbrellas here and there that one can set up unde\r. There is a little stand that sells beach accoutrements. We got there just as the sun was starting to sink. It had cooled off and there was a gentle warm breeze. It's a little odd to see an offshore oil rig in the distance, but what of it. The lagoon (for it was rather lagoon-esque) was quiet. There weren't many people there.

I have been swimming in the Atlantic, the Mediterranean, and the Caribbean. I would say that the Gulf is rather unique. It's like warm bath water. It's light green and clear. After such a long week, I felt like I was in a spa, floating there merrily with my friends. A pleasant bunch they are, too. I am normally afraid of open water, but I'm trying to get over it. So I floated along, chatting happily about absolutely nothing. We sat on the beach and had a light picnic. The sun turned tangerine. The sky changed to hot pink and purple. And far off on the opposite horizon, the almost full moon just kind of hung gently over Sharjah.

We were some of the last to leave the beach. The life guard had gone. We floated until it began to get quite dark. Then I started to worry about the things I couldn't see in the water.

It was wonderful. I might as well have been in a spa, although I am sure spas aren't quite as sandy. I told my colleagues that we should make this a regular afternoon thing at least once a week. We should have beautiful weather until February I am told. Then it will start to get sickeningly hot again.

But not yet :)

Saturday, October 16, 2010

It helps to know a guy.

We got a special treat last night. One of the teacher's husbands works as an accountant for a very large real estate company in Dubai. He can get in to a lot of the private buildings and take advantage of a lot of the perks. One of the really nice perks is access to a private condo overlooking the ocean from the Palm Jumeirah. This place has it's own private beach, a fabulous pool, and wonderful little restaurant. A bunch of us went last night at dusk. We just missed the sunset, but we got to eat outside overlooking the pool and private beach. I had the most succulent bruschetta, a buttery medium rare steak, and to die for potatoes au gratin. We all savored dinner, a calm warm breeze, and candlelight. We could see the Burj Arab, the most expensive and only six star hotel (they said theirs was six because five stars wasn't enough) across the water.

After dinner, we took a little tour of the Palm Jumeirah. The Palm is a man-made island. The fronds are all expensive villas, private beaches, and docks for yachts for the fabulously wealthy. No one can access those areas unless you live there or are invited by a resident (have to make some rich friends!) The Crescent of the Palm follows around the top and is covered in awe-inspiring resorts and hotels. We stopped outside the Atlantis, which is owned by Donald Trump. He has another one in Nassau. It has tanks of sharks and fish. You can go snorkelling, diving, and walk through the underwater tunnels and swim with dolphins. It also has a ton of high end shops, restaurants, and a dance club. I so want to go there and swim with dolphins! We got some ice cream at the Cold Stone at the Atlantis and went for a drive around the island. We have been here for almost two months, and this was the first real experience we had with the cool Dubai that everyone reads about in the travel books.

It really helps to know a fabulous teacher who is married to a wonderful man with handy connections so we can experience things that we otherwise would not be able to do. Like dine at a private restaurant on a stretch of private beach and enjoy a world class meal :)

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Eat, Pray, Love

Eat, Pray, Love came out here tonight. A bunch of us went out to dinner and to see it at the theater over at one of the numerous malls here in Dubai. They really are like destinations in and of themselves, really. They have everything from theaters, to ice skating rinks, to indoor ski resorts. But I digress...

I haven't read the book. I usually like to read the book first so I can get the real story before I go see the movie. The book almost always turns out to be better than the movie. The movie was fascinating, stirring, and spiritual in a way that makes me want to run out and buy the book right now if it means I can have more of what I experienced during the movie.

There were some really good quotes that I have taken away with me. "Send him love and light when you can, and then drop it." There have been loves in my life that for one reason or another I have not been able to keep. It really sucks when you wake up one morning and realize that the love you have isn't the love that you need. It is harder still to tell that other person that although you love them, that you are not the one they need no matter how much you tried to be. People go through their lives miserable with the person they think they need to be with, happy in the idea that they are sticking it out. It's ridiculously hard and painful letting go, forgiving yourself for trying so long only to have to let go. But it happens. So you remember what you had, send them love and light when you can, and then drop it.

I saw myself in Eat, Pray, Love. That's me. The woman who woke up one day and realized that the life she was living was merely an existence, not a life. A woman who had gotten so far from herself that she didn't remember nor recognize who she was. I couldn't remember what I looked like on the inside. It had been so long since I looked in there, only to find it empty. Granted, I love my family and my friends so much. I am very grateful for everyone I know. I just wasn't grateful for me. I didn't know me anymore. It took awhile, but I eventually remembered what I had dreamed about doing, and remembered how to live. Rather, I am still learning how to live.

So what do you do when that happens? Well, some run to Italy to eat and enjoy life, find their spirit in India, and find romance in Bali. Others come to Dubai. And adopt an abandoned kitten. And run around with the most smashing, fabulous, well-travelled, strong willed women that I have ever had the privilege to meet. I remember reading somewhere that when one travels, they find themselves. That when you are away from everything familiar and comforting, that you become who you truly are. I do believe that there is a lot of truth in that. Humans shine their brightest when they are facing great odds. Living out here with so much that is unfamiliar, I feel like only now am I really getting to know myself.

Now, will I find the romance at the end? I prefer not to think about that, really. One of the points in the movie was that after finding balance, one must allow oneself to love again. That's the hard part, isn't it? Some days I believe in love, others I don't. It's easier to believe in someone else's love. Looking from the outside, one can see the beauty of the relationship between two people who are in love. It's a bit harder believing that I can have that and still remain myself considering how lost I became before. How many people run from person to person hoping to find who they really are? Maybe the lucky ones find themselves and love. Don't know. I'm brilliant, but I'm not that smart.

So I'm having a moment. I'm allowed every now and then. So I saw a great movie that I really made a personal connection to. Love Julia Roberts, the woman is phenomenal. The locations were stunning and the story was fantastic. I highly recommend it for a girls' night out. And perhaps a yearlong trek through Italy, India, and Bali as well.

Good night.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Let me tell you about Waxy's...

Waxy's is an Irish pub in Oud Metha which is a neighborhood in Dubai. It's dark, with lots of loud Irish rock, drunken Irish and British people, and eighties music. Upstairs on Friday night, they serve a brunch of English breakfast. Well, after waiting outside our building in the sand for twenty minutes, our taxi showed up. It got us there just in time to get our brunch tickets at 6pm. Yes, I know. Brunch is typically earlier in the day. Not here. It's a "eat a whole lot and then drink your weight in beer" kind of affair. 85 dirhams gets you five drink tickets and the brunch buffet. We got there a little late, so we had to get all of our drinks at once. We drank about five drinks in a little over an hour (apparently we're drinkers with a teaching problem ;) and headed downstairs. The place was packed, and most of them were completed sotted. It was HILARIOUS. The Irish and British get more friendly the more they drink. They're easy to smile, and free with their alcohol. I have never had drinks bought for me by hot Irish guys, and I think I like it ;) The music got louder as the night went on. The entire place sang "Greased Lightning" at the top of their lungs. People got falling down drunk, knocked over tables, got thrown out, got let back in, and got even more drunk. We had a blast. I danced with a very nice British guy, who kept smiling at me and kissing my hand. I danced with him for almost two hours and had a very good time. At one point, he stepped into the light and I got a good look at his face. This prompted me to ask how old he was. He was 22! LOL!!! Yep, and the guy that my friend was dancing with was his uncle! HA! We both agreed that we're going to that special place in a handbasket, and I'm probably driving that handbasket. It was so much fun though! I hadn't gone out to get smashed, I just kind of...did. LMAO!!!

I will probably stay in next weekend. Money is getting tight because we haven't gotten paid yet. We get paid monthly, and we're due for our first paycheck on the 28th. I will be so happy to get some money in my UAE account. So I can get some furniture, some appliances...and go out to Waxy's again! Woohoo!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

And the school year has begun!

Ever wonder where time went? I sure do. I've been here over three weeks now, and the time has seemed to fly by. A couple of teachers have said that before you know it, we'll be saying goodbye to the kids for the summer.

I was supposed to go to Ras Al Khaimah with the girls, but I got really sick last week. I mean REALLY sick. Horrible stomach virus, dehydration, fever...it was horrendous. I was so miserable, didn't know how to make an appointment or what doctors I could see or where. Didn't even know if they would understand me if I did make it to a doctor's office. I had it for several days, and by the time vacation rolled around I felt like I had  been dragged behind a truck for three days. However, the beach will still be there the next time we decide to go away, so staying home was for the best.
I am teaching grades 1-3 EAL (ESL where we come from). Right now, I am working out my schedule, meeting with teachers to determine the best methods of in-class and pull-out support, and amassing massive amounts of paperwork on my students. I have to learn to assess using the standardized testing methods they use here as well as get a working understanding of the guided reading kits. It's a lot, quite frankly. My head is about to explode. I'm almost to the point of saturation. Almost. I feel a trip to the Irish pub coming on and the need for a pint of Magner's.

Day to day living is interesting when living out of a fridge smaller than most dorm fridges and an apartment with almost no furniture, no TV, no internet. Nights can be boring, but we usually have to go out, run some small errand, or someone has there door open and we go hang out for a bit and have a glass of wine. I have to shop fairly often because nothing fits in my fridge except small things and the freezer doesn't work that well. My meals are sporadic and mishmashed because I am limited with what I usually have on hand. My frying pan is my best friend because I have no microwave or kitchen appliances except for my hot water kettle. I love that thing. It boils water in less than two minutes. Needless to say, I have been making a lot of instant coffee. I might break down and get a coffee pot later, but the kettle is so handy.

It's kind of hard to say how I'm feeling. I am getting used to the sights and the sounds. The feeling of sand under my feet, the sound of prayer calling at dusk, and the women in their long black (and often sparkly) abayas and shelas. I can see the Burj Khalifa, the tallest building in the world, from my kitchen window. I see it through the haze in the morning, and it glitters on the horizon at night. It's still very hot here (some days over 115), but it should start cooling down soon as we get closer to October. Or so I'm told. The heat really limits what can be done on the weekends because so many places are closed until October when the heat lets up. I really want to go on a desert safari, see the parks, and walk the Creek in downtown Dubai. Those things are coming. Right now, it's kind of a wibbly wobbly journey into some semblance of a routine. According to my friend Julie, I am going through the stages of culture shock. And in a few weeks I will come up against a wall of depression, followed by disenchantment and then eventually acceptance. Not looking forward to that wall. But I do have lots of support here. The teachers have all been very kind. When I was sick, one of them brought me some ginger ale, crackers, and tea. There's always someone around to help, to ask questions, to give words of encouragement. It's really a nice community of people here.

Ok, it's dinner time. Think maybe some friends and I will order out for Thai. I am hungry, it's been a long day, and I don't think I can stand one more meeting. I'm up to my ears in meetings, curriculum, etc. Dindin time.

Monday, August 30, 2010

It's been a week!

Computer access is sketchy, and I only have internet when I am at school, so these next few posts will be few and far between.

The flight to Dulles went very smoothly. I met the rest of the teachers there and we all flew to Dubai. We got there on Saturday evening (the 21st) and meandered about a bit until we found our way down to customs. Customs was not nearly as much of a hassle as I thought, but the retinal scan caught me by surprise. There are just some things that just don't make it into guide books.

From there, we met a group of teachers in the cafe and were shuffled into cars and whisked away to our apartment building. Dubai looks like most other cities at night: lots of lights, tall buildings, and traffic. When we got there, we were assigned apartments and given keys. There is a gate, 24 hour security with a watchmen, and there are codes to get into the building so it's fairly safe. The building itself is in a neighborhood outside of what the other teachers call "cool Dubai" where all of the touristy stuff is. You actually have to go off-road to get to our parking lot and drive on the sand. It isn't paved. There is so much construction here, roads seem to be put in last. Adds a fun element to driving!

It was after nine, but there were guys in my apartment putting together my bed and there was no fridge (got one the other day). A couple of the girls and I decided to take our first foray out into society and invade the local market for bottled water, cereal, and juice. Ever try reading food labels in another country? Yeah, quite an experience. The products were from all over, though. I got strawberries from Ethiopia, jam from Australia, local eggs and milk, German cereal. And the calories are metric, too! Sheesh. Have to re-think my diet now. Food goes bad much more quickly because there are fewer preservatives in local products. And I don't think my fridge works very well.

The last week really has been quite a blur. I have done more shopping in the last week than I have done in the last year. Setting up an apartment from the basics is not easy! I have seen more of Ikea than I ever wanted to see. There are a couple of other stores that are nicer which have more of the Arab aesthetic of rich textiles, color, and blingy bling. So far, I have acquired a red desk and chair, an Irish pub table with built-in wine rack and four stools, and a small work table for the kitchen. Thanks to the school, a bed, dishes, and starter kitchen box were in the apartment when I got there. You really can't throw a stone around here without hitting a mall. Shopping is a national pastime, it seems. And the malls here put King of Prussia to shame. The stores are mid to high end, but it's the malls themselves that really stand out. Columns, lights, sculpture, grande facades, water fountains, tiled floors, mosaic walls, it's just so much for the eyes to take in! Shopping here takes on a real ambience that makes one just really want to walk around and simply look. There's an awful lot to see.

Everything is here. Chili's, Macaroni Grill, Coldstone, all of the fast food chains (and I mean ALL!), TGI Fridays, Cinnabon, they are all here and within a fifteen minute drive of where I live. I haven't had the chance to miss anything. Shopping in the supermarket is a bit more challenging, but most everything I have ever used I have seen here. Bit more expensive, but it's imported so no way around it.

I have rented a car with a nice young lady who came over with her husband and one year old son. Kudos to them for making the journey! We all knew we were okay when we landed and the baby was still smiling as were we :) Driving here is a bit nerve wracking because everyone has their own sets of rules. The expats all come from countries with different driving laws, so it makes for a lot of road rage. One of the teachers said it best: "Watch out for yourself, and expect people to do the stupidest, weirdest things they can do behind the wheel". And I've seen it. You have to have both eyes open and not be distracted or you will end up smooshed or upside down in the sand. The laws are improving here, though. It also helps that it's Ramadan and there are less people out on the road. We're learning to drive at a good time.

Ramadan falls eleven days earlier every year (lunar calendar). This year, it falls in the hottest time of the year. The Muslims fast from sunrise to sunset, and in this heat that is a loooong day. Expats cannot even drink water in public. I had read that some restaurants are open and screened off, but haven't seen that to be the case. When you can't eat or drink when you want to, it takes it's toll. It seems like forever between breakfast and lunch because all meals have to be eaten in private, even at school out of respect for the Muslims who are fasting. I respect them more and more for it every day when I see how hard it is. They listen for the call to prayer at sundown when it's time to break their fasts with Iftar (evening meal during Ramadan). I like listening to the call to prayer. I don't know what they are saying, but I like the sound of it. It carries throughout the whole city. There are prayer rooms in the malls, and the prayer is played over loudspeakers everywhere. It is omnipresent.

Our residency visas should be coming sooner than we thought. They took us for our medical exams the other day. That was an interesting experience. The principal's driver and one of the administrators drove us downtown to the medical clinic. We walked in, and it was chock full of men who all turned and blatantly stared at us. Some of the other teachers were uncomfortable; I rather expected it. In a large room full of Asian and Arab men, a group of seven Western women sticks out quite a bit. We were x-rayed and blood was taken. They are mainly looking for hepatitis, AIDS, and tuberculosis. Having any of these can get us deported. All of us are going to come up clean, so we should have our visas soon and be able to sign up for internet, cell phones (we have visitor phones and phone cards right now), etc. We are planning to go to Ras Al Khamiya to the beach at the end of Ramadan. This time is called Eid where the Muslims celebrate for a few days. I would too if I made it through all of the fasting and praying! We'll have a few days off of school, so a bunch of us booked rooms at a hotel and will loll about a bit before school starts.

Sorry for the super long post! Hopefully there will be less time in between future posts :)

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Not Long Now

Holy cow. I leave in less than three days. I am almost finished packing. I am just tying up loose ends now. I've called my credit cards, changed my car insurance, closed my gym membership, cleaned out the car. I've packed away, packed up, and packed off all manner of possessions. I've had to start saying TTFN for real now. I am feeling...indescribable. I really can't tell you how I feel. I am going to miss people. I am feeling apprehensive, harried, excited, and trepidatious all at once.

Holy cow.

Monday, August 9, 2010

Packing, cleaning, packing, and more cleaning!

It took awhile this morning for my brain to accept that I didn't have to go to work.
"But it's Monday!" my brain said.
And way back in the recesses of my semi-consciousness, a little voice whispered "You don't work there anymore. Go back to sleep, silly."
And I did.

Today finds me packing, sorting, and cleaning up after this past weekend's hoopla. The art yard sale went very well, with the support and generosity of many friends and visitors who saw the signs or the ads on craigslist. I was relieved of almost three quarters of what I put out. The rest will go to a friend for her yard sale and the other stuff can go to the Salvation Army. They like to make a space as soon as they see my car pull in ;)

I made it a point today to take down any remaining decor, pictures, and photos and pack them away. I have eleven days until I leave, and this place needs to stop feeling like home. For my own good, I need to start separating myself from my mother's house. It'll make the transition easier. I also have to re-think what I'm packing, because I want to include a couple of things from home that will make me feel more at ease in my new apartment. Just little things, like photos, one of my pillows, my wall calendar, and other small miscellaneous things. The school does allow me a moving allowance, but I have to make the initial expense myself. Being that I don't have a lot of reserve cash, I'm packing like I'm moving to a desert island. Which, if you think about it, I am.

That's it for now. Just wanted to drop a quick entry so I get more in the habit of updating regularly. Granted, internet access will be sketchy when I first get there. Still, I am going to do my best to update consistently.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Under Construction

With this being a brand new blog and my getting accustomed to the tools, I do hope that you'll forgive how sparse looking this is right now. It's like a new apartment. I'll grow into it.

I leave for Dubai on August 20th. I have a lot to do until then. I cannot believe how much stuff needs to find new homes and new storage places. I feel like I'm packing for a desert island because I can take so little with me. It feels very liberating in a way to get rid of so much stuff. I feel weighed down by my possessions, and the more I get rid of the better I feel.

Thanks for looking! Keep checking back as I update.